Moving
will always be a challenge, especially for your children. It can become a
roller coaster ride of emotions before, on, and even after the move. When your
kids move to somewhere that they are not familiar with, there are some main
concerns of fear and anxiety. This can cause stress and worry. After all, a new
home, hopefully new friends, and even a new school - everything is new and it
will take time for them to adjust.
HELPING YOUR KIDS ADJUST TO THE MOVE AS TOLD BY GOLAN'S MOVERS
Right after you arrive at your new home,
tell your child that they have complete freedom to design their room. Don't
let your child restrict themselves of their creative freedom when it comes to
their own room. After all, it IS their room. Tell them that let it be their
priority to settle in their room before they help with other stuff. This way,
they can feel more comfortable with their new surroundings. It will also be
easier on their part to adapt.
Maintain old daily rituals as much as
possible. For example, if you eat meals with the family complete at the
table, then don't take this routine away. Routine is very important to the
lives of your children. Make sure to keep old household habits as much as
possible. This will make them feel more at home, well, even though they are at
home but you get the idea.
Related blog: Golan's Moving Tips
Get them involved in sports (if they like
sports). Does your child like soccer? How about baseball or basketball?
Does the local school have such teams? If they do, then coerce your child to
engage in these activities. Ask them if they want to try out for the local
team. DO NOT force them to join immediately as it will only result in a fight.
Tell them to take their time and let them join only when they feel that they
are ready.
If your child is starting to make new
friends, tell them to invite them over to the house. The new neighborhood
is a very good place to start making friends; not only for you but for your
kids as well. Start with inviting the neighbors over to the new home and tell
them that if they have kids to bring them over as well.
Getting
your child to settle into the new environment can be tricky. However, it can be
done. All you have to do is be patient and, most importantly, be understanding.
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